A person sits alone in a quiet, dimly lit room, head gently bowed or turned away—capturing the subtle tension of internal conflict and quiet misalignment.

The Micro-Actions of Misalignment

June 13, 20251 min read

Big breakdowns don’t start big. They start with small betrayals of your design.

It didn’t start with the breakdown

It started when you said “yes,” even though your body said “no.”

When you rushed a response to avoid disappointing someone.

When you adjusted your voice to sound a little more acceptable.

When you swallowed the truth because someone else’s comfort felt more critical than your clarity.


Misalignment doesn’t always scream

It whispers. It compromises. It shows up in your tone, your posture, and your schedule.

And most days, you barely notice, because you’ve spent your whole life becoming efficient at suppressing yourself.

But every time you do…a piece of you drifts further from who God created you to be.


You don’t lose your alignment in one moment.
You leak it, one small self-abandonment at a time.


So how do you catch it before it escalates?

Try this:

At the end of today, ask yourself one question, and answer it with brutal honesty:

“What did I do today that wasn’t actually mine to do?”

That’s it.

Not to shame yourself. But to see clearly.

Because every “yes” that wasn’t aligned was actually a “no” to who you’re becoming.

And when you start noticing those micro-misalignments, you can stop them before they become a pattern.


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From my radiant Maverick heart,
– Jeff ❤️‍🔥

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Jeffrey S. Simpson is a strategic advisor, movement builder, and spiritual disruptor—guiding trailblazers and purpose-driven souls to live boldly, unleash impact, and align with their divine design. Through his signature frameworks—the .1% Effect℠, Be EmPowerful℠, and the 5F Framework℠ (Faith, Family, Fitness, Fellowship, and Field)—Jeff helps others become who God created them to be in life, work, and legacy.

A Maverick with nearly 37 years of service in and with the U.S. Navy and over 15 years at The Johns Hopkins University Applied Physics Laboratory, Jeff brings battle-tested leadership to every conversation. He holds graduate degrees in divinity and ministry, a bachelor’s in religion, and an associate’s in engineering. He is a certified Strengths Champion coach, actively pursuing certification in the Enneagram and credentialing through the International Coaching Federation (ICF).

When he's not coaching high-achieving pioneers, Jeff can be found on the dance floor as a passionate ballroom, rhythm, and social dancer.

Jeffrey S. Simpson

Jeffrey S. Simpson is a strategic advisor, movement builder, and spiritual disruptor—guiding trailblazers and purpose-driven souls to live boldly, unleash impact, and align with their divine design. Through his signature frameworks—the .1% Effect℠, Be EmPowerful℠, and the 5F Framework℠ (Faith, Family, Fitness, Fellowship, and Field)—Jeff helps others become who God created them to be in life, work, and legacy. A Maverick with nearly 37 years of service in and with the U.S. Navy and over 15 years at The Johns Hopkins University Applied Physics Laboratory, Jeff brings battle-tested leadership to every conversation. He holds graduate degrees in divinity and ministry, a bachelor’s in religion, and an associate’s in engineering. He is a certified Strengths Champion coach, actively pursuing certification in the Enneagram and credentialing through the International Coaching Federation (ICF). When he's not coaching high-achieving pioneers, Jeff can be found on the dance floor as a passionate ballroom, rhythm, and social dancer.

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